Sunday, October 28, 2018

Living Your Dreams, Literally!


This post derives from a recent dream I had where my late father visited me. This, marked the 5th time I believe, he's visited me in my dreams since he passed in 2007 from a motorcycle incident. This particular dream I remembered vividly when I woke up in the middle of the night, but when I thought back on it the next day I couldn't remember the details. Frustrated, I tried to relax and think back on the conversation and location but I couldn't unlike the previous ones. From that moment I decided that I would write down the next one.

Thinking more in depth on the subject, I figured why not write down any powerful dream or any dream where I visited a place I haven't been to before. Of course we are all familiar with deja vu. I do agree with the theory, we experience deja vu because we've dreamed it before. We obviously know we've never been or done something that just struck us with the feeling of "I've been here before". I can say, I've experienced these shocking and briefly eery moments from time to time. A couple, I can almost pinpoint to a dream for sure.

What I plan to do now and encourage you the reader to do as well, is write down the experiences and locations you visit in your dreams. This, can create a "Dream Bucket List" or allow you to recall powerful dreams you've had along with any ideas from your subconscious. You will literally be able to live your dreams now because you can pull locations and ideas from the list you have created.
WHAT WILL BE YOUR FIRST DREAM YOU LIVE?

-FLOETSPEAR

Tuesday, August 21, 2018

Experiencing an acquired craving for knowledge

The brain is constantly working just as the computer inside your phone or laptop. It never shuts off. The idea behind the title of my post derives from me completing a book and then craving more information on the next topic or an idea the last book placed in my head. According to one study the average reader only takes 20% from content they read.. Same goes for movies, or shows, about 20% of the authors, producers, or playwriter's info sticks to the viewer or reader etcc.. This tells me that I need to get 5 books my belt in a sense to get each of the 20% that stuck with me to equal 100% right? Well, maybe if the 5 books were all on the same topic but when you're craving knowledge, it doesn't matter where it comes from. I've been reading about the subconscious mind lately and in contrast with the 20% of a book sticking with me,  I've learned that if you read the book for a 2nd and 3rd time then the likelihood of more of the message sticking increases. Not only with the message or idea stick with you better, but if you want to create an action behind a thought that's has grown from a book, the rereading will plug the message into your subconscious mind. There, is where the memory bank is unlimited.. The conscious mind has only a temporary memory. Basically, this means you can focus on one thing you want to do today, complete it, but then the subconscious mind will reset your plans tomorrow if this new focus is out of the norm.

Over the past few months, I didn't realize I was reprogramming my suncosubcons mind to promote and encourage my own personal growth. The more I learned about any new topic became exciting to me. I couldn't wait to share it with the world and friends. The dialogue of conversations changed with peers and elders and I had plenty of content to bounce off of the experienced and doer's of the world. This became inspiring to me. I turned to books when normally I would turn to video games or close friends that would talk about problems more than opportunities. We all have friends like that. It's good to vent and lend an ear at times but some days you just don't want to hear the same depressing stories. In order to gain knowledge or learn new things you have to go outside of your normal circle and day to day family members. Chances are y'all have already discussed the same info or touched on the same topic over the years. Instead, go to your aquaintances for new information. It will be way more beneficial especially if youryo looking for new ideas or even employment.
For the 20% of this post I would recommend rereading or going over something you've learned or are trying to implement in your life. This will give you a better chance of getting the information and focus to stick to your subconscious mind.

--FLOETSPEAR

Monday, July 30, 2018

Are smart phones the new cigarette?



Each day you see that smoker who always seems to have that slow burning nicotine, or cancer stick as some of us say, in their right or left hand. Many times a day do we have our cell phones in our hands a day? Don't read too much into the title, it's a bold one but it did its job as you are getting deeper into the thought of.. Some starting to give themselves excuses of why or how a smartphone doesn't smell your clothes up or can kill you.. First sign of addiction right? I'll be honest, I'm typing on my mobile device now. I'm not immune to the new age technology. Let's just think about it in general. Are Mobile devices the new cigarette? Now what do you think?

As we live our lives and continue through our days we tend to sit and grab that Smartphone with its great Graphical User Interface and quick operating system. Almost craving to see what's happening or what's going on outside of our own lives. It's a strong addiction isn't? I'm writing now as the title came to my mind and the thought of me wasting a good topic, became too much for me to let sit in my head.

I just honestly wanted to take a break from the laptop and studying. My recent vlog about the importance of resting and reflecting came to mind. So, I closed the laptop thinking I would relax and watch some TV. Then, not only did I reach for my phone but, this blog idea came to my mind as I was getting ready to basically do the same thing I was just telling myself to take a break from.

I enjoy writing, I enjoy telling my stories and sharing my experiences. It's interesting that whatever you're doing or into at the time can become a part of you. For example, the love for writing and my current studies of computer courses all syncing together with a crazy thought such as the thought of…

"Cell phones being the new cigarette!!"

I am either pretty tired or on to something here... Let’s see, you can look at it for too long and hit a tree or run off the road when driving, which can cause bodily harm or death. As smokers, we do keep a pack on us just as we keep the phone in our pockets or handbag. Eventually you’re going to pull one out and if it’s frowned upon on a “company’s dime” or something of that nature, you’ll just step out for a moment or seclude yourself for a couple of hits!! Addicted yet? Of course not, we’ll put it out for now, we’ll actually offer our apologies.. Sooner or later we’ll need another drag though!!

Cell phones are the new cigarette!

--FLOETSPEAR

Monday, July 23, 2018

Stretching Yourself with Tasks.. Success Driven



I've read that the successful ones can multitask and juggle all kinds of jobs, while prioritizing what needs to be put at the top and which doings can be taken care of after. I believe I'm starting to understand the meaning of testing your capacity. Four months into this new journey I have found myself hosting a men's empowerment group two days after beginning my first post in a Master's course discussion board. My son has just been given a platform for his live stream for gamers as he steps into the media path of most millennials in these times we currently live in. The wife has grown to new heights in her business, we’ve spent more days and time together with erasing schedules and enjoying dinner dates often. My mother calls me everyday almost now and I contact and visit my grandmother a lot more than usual as her eyes began to weaken. The knowledge and experience I've had seems to find it's way to the ears of young relatives now as well as they search for their paths. I spoke with a business owner and his wife today and offered my services in Media Marketing as they plan to retire in the near future. Surprisingly my sales pitch did not fall short of a success as I plan to create a business page for the restaurant and hopefully increase their business through ads and other marketing strategies learned from mentors and Tai Lopez, giving credit where credit is due. Tomorrow a new day begins as we move forward with the "job's" daily 8 hr routine then back home to be husband, father, and now student once again. Everything seems to move faster than normal but I'm confused by this calmness that has settled in me with so much going on. I can feel the stretch of the endeavors and I reflect on readings that stated I should get used to being pulled from all ends if I want to grow. I look at what's ahead and my imagination takes over. I put it in writing then my strategic planning does the rest while my motivation feeds my dedication!!
--FLOETSPEAR

Monday, July 9, 2018

Bobby Tee vs. Borgata The 2009 File Declassified



My first time playing poker I would have to say I was 8 or 9 years old. During the summer, the family would head down to the river house on every other weekend or so, out of the school break. There, my sister and I along with a couple of our older cousins would play “I de-clare-war” with an old deck from the adult’s previous late night "bidwiz" and spades card game. My older cousin D.W. was actually the one to show us how to play. I used his initials because my poker crew would give me hell about it for life.

Fast forward from 1994 to May 14, 2009. I’m 25 years old on I-95, 10pm heading from Mechanicsville, VA to Atlantic City, NJ. I felt I had a good 7 years of local play plus had visited the Borgata a couple of weeks prior to this trip. Not to mention I ran my own game and called the venue (Guest bedroom) the “Vellagio” for the previous 18 months. We still play with the clay chips from the first ever game I hosted.

 
Anyway, 25 and on I-95 with the cruise control set on 78mph. Riding low in an all black 2006 Dodge Stratus, with the brand-new Garmin GPS just picked up from Best Buy earlier in the day. I had the radiator flushed and the fluids topped off with new spark plugs put in too. I figured if I left around 9:30pm it should be a smooth 5 hr drive with one stop at the Maryland House for a quick bathroom break and stretch the legs a bit. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little nervous. Not for the fact of sitting with the more aggressive and experienced poker players, but for the simple reason this was my first time going this far by myself. This is what led to the numerous precautions with the car and GPS including getting the AAA roadside coverage as well. Two suitcases packed, a carton of cigarettes, jewelry, shoes and clothes all in the trunk. The blazers hanging from the hook above the backseat on the passenger side. Hotel Room was booked and the girlfriend was okay with me leaving for a few days. $4,000 cash in the bank envelope stuffed in my suit case and five $100 bills in my pocket as loose change. Another $500 was left with my ol’ lady, you know, for shopping or food, get your hair done or something. Basically the, “I’ll be gone for a couple of days money...”

About 80% of the way the GPS took me through the country side of town. Only about an hour away and it was a nice and smooth ride with the Ipod on random, playing the new hits and windows down. The anxiety slowing building as I often glanced at the GPS to see the number of miles left before arrival. Finally, I hit the GPS directed me to the Atlantic City Expressway, now I know I’m almost there. One last call home to inform Jesse that I was about 15 minutes from the Borgata Casino and Spa. The GPS read 5 minutes away and there it was. The East Coast’s sin city lights lit up the night sky!! I was here all the way by myself no rules and no body to tell me when, where, or what. The adult’s playground as some would call it. I missed the Borgata entrance exit off of the 1 Borgata Way’s rt… Needless to say I didn’t care I was here anyway. After turning around, I entered the Parking deck and went up and drove until I could find a parking spot close to the door.  Got all of my immediate belongings and ID, cell phone, etc… Coming up to the elevator from the parking deck with one of my suitcases and ear buds in my ear, it was grind time. Nothing reminds you more of where you are at then hearing that elevator say “Casino” as you prepare to step out.

The fresh smell of the deodorizing smoke scent which I will always remember, the Borgata smell, hits you like a breath of fresh air for any gambler. The sound of hundreds of people talking and yelling, with the constant clinging of the slot machines which does mesmerize the tourist or first time visitors.  The foot traffic was still steady even on a Thursday night or 2 am Friday morning I should say. I headed past the shops and onto the Casino floor making a right, passing the Elevator lobby and to the front desk check in. I had already called 30 minutes prior and told them I was coming in town early and wanted to see if I could check in before 6 am. “Of course, Mr. Taylor we have a room for you all set up.” I had learned in my last two trips that confidence is everything when speaking to the front desk clerks. Two keys were handed to me after I presented my ID and credit card. Up to the 42nd floor I went. I believe it was the 42nd or 43rd but any way I had to go to the farthest elevator on the left side of the elevator lobby. I really like how they had an armed security guard standing watch at the lobby doors as well. You had to present your key to even get by to get to your rooms. Eventually I would know the guards by name after greeting them every morning but let’s not get too far ahead. Opening the room door and putting the suitcase down I had to walk to the window to look at the view of the Oceanfront Casinos. I was finally here. At the moment I said a little prayer and talked to my dad letting him know I missed him and to forgive me for the stuff I was ready to get into downstairs. I removed the money from my suitcase adding another 500 to what was in my pocket and put the rest in a safe that was in the closet. I put on my Georgetown sweatshirt with my “VA” hat and hit the $1/2 blinds NL Holdem’ table. Max buy in $300 so I bought in $300 in chips.
 
 I played for about an hour and a half before the road trip began to wear on me. The hot cocoa with whip cream had gave me a little bit of energy but it was time to head back to the room and get some rest!!  May have been up or down but it didn’t matter I was tired at that point. I think I sat peering out of the room window for about another 20 minutes as the cars and lights lit the sky up. Then I proceeded to kickback and relax.

The next morning, I hopped up and dialed room service and ordered some pancakes with bacon and eggs to start the morning off right. I pulled back the curtains and all you could see was fog since I was forty-two floors up. After eating I figured I’d go down to the spa and relax in the hot tub by the pool. Definitely a great way to start your gambling day with some poolside action. Once again, I reached out to room service with the phone by the towel area and tried to order a grey goose and vodka. Grey goose wasn’t on the room service menu according to them so, I settled for the Ketel One instead. Not too bad with pineapple juice, slice of orange, lemon and a lime. Breakfast of champions for me sipping by the pool and preparing for the war that lies ahead on the felt.
 
After an hour of relaxation. It was time to hit the poker tables. I would play till about 4 or 5 pm then get some lunch either there or some where out on the ocean front. Some days I would hit the Hooters in the Tropicana and then enjoy a cigarette watching the waves crash on the beach. Then after I’d proceed back to the Borgata and play more poker. That was the routine throughout that weekend. Friday and Sunday nights were for the Club inside the Borgata. Club Mur Mur was a pretty happening spot on those nights as the Jersey and Philadelphia locals would pack the casino in their finest clothing. That’s one thing about the casino life I enjoyed and that was from Thursday to Monday morning everyday seemed like a Friday night! For a twenty-five-year-old young man, it was where you wanted to be if you enjoyed the sights, sounds, and party atmosphere.

The weekend hits and my buddy Wes showed up. Wes always had a love for the game of poker and respected it the same as the infamous Phil Hellmuth (Las Vegas Poker Pro). Needless to say, he reacts to bad beats the same as Phil too.
 
Wes was the first player I noticed early who actually studied the game or would do research on different topics. For example, throwing the dice in a “V”, with the 3 dots showing on the top of both die and meeting in shape of a “V” when you bring them side by side.
 
He brought a couple of books about Black Jack and a poker book by Barry Greenstein or Phil Hellmuth with him as well.  At the time I thought it was a little much but hey, to each their own. Looking back at it why not study or research anything? It’s all good information even when gambling. I used him as my book when it came to the Casino experience. He was the first to have introduced me to the city and he had the experience with the players. One of the first things he reminded me of is that the poker games there never end. What I mean is that basically when you’re tired it’s okay to get up. At that point in my life before the casino games I had always stayed at any game until it ended. Win or lose I would always play until the morning or the game broke at a friends or underground games throughout the Richmond City areas. With that being said we hit the tables and had a pretty good time. I recall the time we sat at the Black Jack table and found a nice $10 minimum section. Wes always looked for the Asian section because that's where the table minimums were the lowest. Sometimes we even found $5 min tables throughout the weekdays. The drinks had been flowing all day as it was late on a weekend night so still a good crowd throughout. This particular table we ended up being at a table where it was just us verse the dealer. I’m thinking let’s go to a table with some more people to enjoy the crowd he was thinking our odds just went up and it’s us vs. the dealer. With a $10 minimum it was easy to save your money when you didn’t “feel it” on a particular hand. With that and a few other strategies we had things began to go pretty well. We even had a dealer come over by the name of Lynette which is the name of my mother and sister. Once I told him that he immediately said, “it’s a good sign Rob it’s going to be a great shoe" (Shoe: Black jack term for a device where the decks of cards are held before the dealer rolls them out to the players).
 
We played at that table for about 2 hours before some random pit boss walks up and says that there closing the table after the shoe finished. I was thinking okay no problem sir, still being a rookie of the game and new comer, I had no idea that they were watching us win for the last hour and a half. We didn’t win 100,000 dollars or anything but we did have a couple a piece. Wes on the other hand was like, “wow Rob they’re shutting the table down on us dude.” We hit them for bout 4 thousand or so between the 2 of us. Not a bad night, especially for a couple of poker players playing at the $1/2 or $2/5 limit Holdem tables. After that hit he squared away his half of the money for the room and from that point on it was a free roll for us.

The game plan was set after we built up some hours at the tables. Of course, we were comped a few things through the trip as well. Ultimately the plan became to use my two complimentary nights Monday and Tuesday, then we’d used his two complimentary nights for Wednesday and Thursday. Friday, Sat, and Sunday would be paid from the winnings from throughout those 4 free days. Wes had a paper route back in Richmond, VA so he had to return to work for a couple of days then he would pop back up on Wednesday night and we’d do it all over again. I arrived at the Borgata May 14th, 2009 and I returned July 2nd, 2009. The swings were tremendous and the experience was so exciting I couldn’t put it all in one blog entry so, Look for Part 2!! Coming soon.

-FLOETSPEAR

 
Bobby Tee vs Borgata
2009 Files Declassified Pt.1 

 
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Thursday, June 21, 2018

Leadership and Integrity


Lately my readings have involved leadership topics and integrity. Many people have a clean image but inside is where we locate the integrity. The titles of boss or manager for instance often plays a role in many of the lives of people who get up and go to work to provide for their families and themselves. I’ve recently learned that the good leaders in life may be the number 2s or 3s in their positions at work. This is possible because of their ability to influence others. That’s the true definition of a leader. A strong leader also holds themselves to higher standards than their followers. I.E. the staying at work later or completing the high priority tasks no matter what the cost or how much time it takes. Getting to work before everyone or waking up at 3 am to be at the sitters house by 5 am in order to arrive at work by 6 am. Daily!! The dedicated usually stand out in the crowds of many and are easy to spot [Floetspear]. Imagine a dedicated boss who influences their workers. Even a dedicated coach who leads their team no matter who’s on the team. After educating myself on these characteristics several people come to mind, most I can call today and ask questions or just share thoughts. I find it intriguing that the more you learn the more your world expands and the easier it becomes to involve or find the right people to surround yourself with [Floetspear].
Lets talk about how we can lead in our daily lives. We can most definitely count on integrity being a part of it. Doing the right things even when no one is looking. Of course doing the right thing and showing the dedication will be seen by others in public. I’ve learned that people with these characteristics draw people to them. Followers or employees will do things for them that they wouldn’t for those who are not influencers even if they have a boss's title or role. The best advice I can give tonight would be lead by example! Get use to doing the right things and staying focused on the highest priority. Take the time to analyze your priorities to determine what needs immediate action and what things can wait. Put your family and their needs first stop worrying about what others think. If you’re doing things right all of the time you’re image is transparent and open to the public with nothing to hide. This will pull loved ones closer and the right people to you! Make sure you try to spend 33% of your time with people you can learn something from, 33% with people who know the same things you do and of course 33% of your time with those who you can help!

--FLOETSPEAR
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Wednesday, June 13, 2018

Searching How to use more of the Brain

Now days, as I ride on the same roads I have traveled since becoming able to drive the sights and scenery look new... The vast opportunities surrounding us can often go unseen until you are able to open your mind and believe in yourself. As I play my goals back this morning from a recording I made, the day begins with me in search of inspiration from the day’s tasks. After discovering a couple of books at a local Goodwill store, I wondered how I could use more of my brain. The myth we only use 10% seems a little odd but I’m sure we can learn to pull from more areas of our mind and brain. I am not going to let this thought leave my head with out writing it down on the goals list. Google showed different foods and things of that nature to enhance memory which made me think, if my memory expands then I could double or even triple the amount of information I take in on a daily and weekly basis. My newly acquired craving for knowledge is now needing more room as the information on Earth seems just as endless as the unexplored Universe. I find myself staying idle at work while waiting to get off of the set schedule to accommodate this craving to learn and challenge my thinking. Constantly testing my endurance is becoming satisfying as I watch and feel the mind and body work together. The question for the readers and listeners along with myself is, “how will you learn to use more of your brain?”

---FLOETSPEAR

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